Pointing Things Out with Este, Ese, and Aquel
Pointing Things Out with Este, Ese, and Aquel
Spanish demonstratives help you point out or identify people and things. In this lesson, you will learn the three main distance ideas represented by — this, — that, and — that over there.
The basic contrast is:
- — this, near the speaker
- — that, farther from the speaker or near the listener
- — that over there, far from both the speaker and the listener
Using este for something near you
Use — this with a masculine singular noun that is close to the speaker.
- — this book
- — this coffee
- — this restaurant
- — this phone
For example:
— This book is interesting.
— This coffee is good.
Using ese for something farther away
Use — that with a masculine singular noun that is farther from the speaker, often near the listener or at a moderate distance.
- — that book
- — that coffee
- — that restaurant
- — that phone
For example:
— That book is interesting.
— That restaurant is good.
Using aquel for something far away
Use — that over there with a masculine singular noun that is clearly far from both the speaker and the listener.
- — that book over there
- — that café over there
- — that restaurant over there
- — that hotel over there
For example:
— That hotel over there is large.
— That restaurant over there is expensive.
Comparing the three distances
| Spanish | English | Typical distance |
|---|---|---|
| this | near the speaker | |
| that | farther from the speaker or near the listener | |
| that over there | far from both |
The exact physical distance depends on the situation, but this three-part contrast is a useful beginner model.
Demonstratives agree with the noun
Like adjectives, demonstrative words change to agree with the noun in gender and number.
| Distance | Masculine singular | Feminine singular | Masculine plural | Feminine plural |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| near | — this | — this | — these | — these |
| middle | — that | — that | — those | — those |
| far | — that over there | — that over there | — those over there | — those over there |
Neutral forms: esto, eso, and aquello
Spanish also has three neutral demonstratives:
- — this / this thing or situation
- — that / that thing or situation
- — that over there / that distant thing or situation
Use these forms when you are pointing to something that you are not naming with a specific noun, or when you refer to a whole situation or idea.
Person A: — What is this?
Person B: — This is a phone.
Person A: — What is that?
Person B: — That is a key.
Person A: — What is that over there?
Person B: — That over there is a hotel.
Known noun versus neutral reference
Compare:
- — this book
- — this / this thing
- — that shirt
- — that / that thing or situation
- — that hotel over there
- — that over there / that distant thing or situation
, , and their feminine or plural forms go with a known noun and agree with it. , , and are neutral: they do not go directly before a noun, and they are not masculine versions of the other forms.
Using esta with feminine singular nouns
Use — this with a feminine singular noun near the speaker.
- — this table
- — this chair
- — this shirt
- — this pharmacy
For example:
— This table is small.
Using esa with feminine singular nouns
Use — that with a feminine singular noun farther from the speaker.
- — that table
- — that chair
- — that shirt
- — that pharmacy
For example:
— That chair is large.
Using aquella with feminine singular nouns
Use — that over there with a feminine singular noun that is clearly far away.
- — that table over there
- — that chair over there
- — that pharmacy over there
- — that station over there
For example:
— That station over there is far away.
Using estos and estas for things near you
Use — these with masculine plural nouns and — these with feminine plural nouns.
- — these books
- — these coffees
- — these tables
- — these chairs
For example:
— These books are interesting.
— These chairs are small.
Using esos and esas for plural things farther away
- — those books
- — those coffees
- — those tables
- — those chairs
For example:
— Those books are expensive.
— Those tables are large.
Using aquellos and aquellas for plural things far away
- — those books over there
- — those restaurants over there
- — those tables over there
- — those shops over there
For example:
— Those restaurants over there are expensive.
— Those shops over there are far away.
Using demonstratives with familiar shopping vocabulary
Demonstratives are especially useful when you are choosing between visible items.
- — I want this book.
- — I want that shirt.
- — I prefer that café over there.
- — I want these chairs.
The demonstrative identifies exactly which item you mean.
Asking about a specific item
You can combine familiar question language with demonstratives.
- — How much does this book cost?
- — How much does that shirt cost?
- — How much does that phone over there cost?
This is useful when several similar items are visible.
Pointing out places
You can also use demonstratives with familiar neighborhood places.
- — This bank is here.
- — That pharmacy is next to the park.
- — That hospital over there is far away.
The demonstrative helps distinguish one place from another.
Choosing between visible options
Read this short exchange:
Person A: — What do you prefer, this book or that book?
Person B: — I prefer this book.
Another example:
Person A: — What do you prefer, this table or that table over there?
Person B: — I prefer that table over there.
Do not choose the form only by distance
You must consider both distance and noun agreement.
For example:
- — this book
- — this table
- — these books
- — these tables
All four refer to things near the speaker, but the form changes with gender and number.
Choosing the correct demonstrative step by step
Use this sequence:
- Decide whether the thing is near, farther away, or far away.
- Identify whether the noun is masculine or feminine.
- Identify whether the noun is singular or plural.
- If you are naming a known noun, choose the agreeing demonstrative form.
- If you are pointing to an unnamed thing or whole situation, use , , or instead.
A short practical conversation
Person A: — Do you like this shirt?
Person B: — Yes, I like it.
Person A: — And that shirt?
Person B: — No, I prefer this shirt.
This type of exchange is common when comparing visible items.
From Demonstratives to Clothes, Colors, Sizes, and Materials
You can now use , , and their agreeing forms to point out nearby, farther, and distant people or things. The next lesson introduces clothes, colors, sizes, and basic materials so you can describe and compare items more precisely.